When we come to Jesus with a problem, we often want His help—but only on our terms. In this message from the No More Whine series, Pastor Thomas-Steele explores Mary’s words in John 2:5: “Do whatever He tells you.”

Through the wedding at Cana, the healing of the man born blind, and the story of the rich young ruler, we see that one of the greatest hindrances to experiencing Jesus’ help is resisting Jesus’ response. His direction may feel confusing, costly, or uncomfortable—but surrender means trusting that whatever He says is right.

When we pray, we do not come to Jesus with suggestions. We come in surrender.